Yes, I’m just a mom who always make my children cry!



Bakit nga ba naiyak ang isang bata?

Mula sa kanilang pagsilang, kailangan nilang umiyak para malaman nilang buhay sila at nailuwal na sila. Kaya sila pinapalo mula paglabas nila sa ating sinapupunan.

Proud ako to say, I always make my children cry. Not because I am hurting them but I always give them letter of love that I didn’t realize will touch their hearts and make them cry.

This is my recent letter that I didn’t mean to make them cry.

About the letter:

I was crying last night and nagiisip ako lately why my children are always fighting, whining and all. That disappoints me because I felt like I’m a failure. I am failing to take care of them and love them.

Alam kong pag wala na si moy and daddy, hindi ninyo pababayaan si Yvan. 🙏🏻

I just want to let them know and understand why Yvan act like this. Their little brother has a medical condition and also a hearing impaired and my children supports Yvan. They are a little frustrated because Yvan is starting to hit them and misbehaves. After all, bata pa sila. Even if they were telling me they understand and love Yvan, hindi maiwasan na magkasakitan sila.

I was teary eyed because of their reaction after reading my letter and they gave me a warm hug. I will always treasure you all anak. Kahit angry si mommy, you know I will always be the person you can count on, and I will always love you til the end of time.

It will always be your mommy,

Mommy Heart

Mommy Heart

Mommy Heart

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Mommy Heart

38 comments

  1. Love Compoc says:

    I love writing at them pero not always since si eldest palang nakaka read. Super guilty ako because i always make them cry. Lately, im having prob re proper discipline. Whenever each will pick a fight , I tried to compose myself and explain why hurting another is not option ,instead understanding . .try to understand. Si eldest mas naiiyak whenever heart to heart kami because ive been telling him that sooner since he is our 1st child and kuya to his siblings, may mas malaking responsibility siya. Emotional kasi siya kapag napapag usapan ang future. Ako naman i tried to be cool and explain everything to him na control his temper because he’s been there- makulit. Kay daughter naman, i feel guilty kapag napapalo if she’s acting too much na to bear. She would ask apologies naman agad that’s what i like kasi apologetic siya but madalas siya ang starter ng siblings war. Hugs Mommy, there’s no perfect way to tame kids whenever they are upset too as long as we can show them our love padin and guidance maiintindihan nila later on . ❤️ Salute sa sobra patience mo Mommy and huge love sa kids.

  2. Geralyn Anne Cebu says:

    I love writing letters. My kids started writing letters too. I started it for them to be trained to write, plus to be able to express themselves. =) I think when children hear our hearts, they start to understand where we are coming from.

  3. Steph bulangis says:

    Awww…I feel u po minsan tlga masakit na makikita mo yung mga anak mo na minsan hindi nagkakasundo at nagkakasakitan yung tipong madidissapoint ka ndi lang sa knila pati na din sa srili mo kasi you ask yourself bat cla nagkakagnun kulang ba sa pangaral or what kaya magndng way po itong pagbibigay ng letter sa ating mga anak para mas maunawaan nila.ung nara2mdman natin and for them to realize ung actions and behavior nila.

  4. Abba Seyer says:

    I also think about it every time my children fight with each other or sometimes arguing.. Feeling ko po kasalanan ko yung nangyayari sa kanila. 🙁😔

  5. Nhet Mendoza says:

    Awww, God bless you , Mommy Heart! 😙
    Minsan maiiyak ka nalang talaga dahil sayo umiiyak din anak mo. Nasa tabi lang natin si God pray lang palagi gabayan tayo sa pagpapalaki ng anak. Naiyak tuloy ako habang nagtatype ng comment.

  6. Cris Vergara says:

    Yung nabasa ko yung caption naquilty agad ako mommy 😆. Kasi minsan napapagalitan at napapalo ko ang anak ko pero isa lang un sa pagdidisiplina ko sa kanila. Pero nung nabasa ko ang buong mensahe mo mommy natouch ako thanks for sharing po gawin ko din ito sa anak ko. Alam ko maiintindihan lang nila ako once na naging isang magulang nadin. 😊

  7. Aiza Gregorio says:

    Lahat talaga tayong mga inay. Hindi maiwasang napagbubuhatan natin ng kamay ang ating mga anak. Ako din aminado ako madalas mapalo dahil sa kulit at hindi ko talaga kaya minsan ang katigasan ng ulo nila. Pero after k sila mapalo umiiyak ako ng palihim dahil hangat maari ayaw ko sila masaktan. Salamat sa letter na ito momshie gagayahin ko ito. Titignan ko maging reaction ng panganay ko😊

  8. Jennifer Londe says:

    Wow na inspired naman akonsa letter mommy..Yes minsan admit ko na napapalo ko anak but then sinasabi ko sa kanila kung bakit ko sila napapalo..Always say lo din na pag pinalo kayo ni mama meaning love ko kayu ayaw kong lumaki kayong matigas nag ulo ang gusto ko ma disiplina ko kayo yun lagi kong sinsabi sa kanila.

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